My preferred synonym for vagina, actually. Cunt is not soft like Pussy. Pussy is disyllabic and cutesy and somewhat over done. But cunt…cunt is not only the original slang for what is between my thighs as in Gropecunt Lane, but it is hard and fast and full of life. It has a sharp edge that I like, passionate and gasping or quick and commanding. It does not mess around. It has a hard “t” that can be caught beautifully between the teeth and a moaning “u” in the middle. It is one simple, beautiful syllable that starts with the curling softness and ends hard. Just as it should.
Care and Training of the Wimp: Shame
By a curious irony, it is precisely the humbling and humiliating treatment that men dealt out to women in the 1950’s that is most appropriate for men themselves, and most conducive to male happiness and the health of a marriage — at least when the male is a wimp and the wife means to keep him in his place.
The wimp should be completely dependent on the dominant woman for sexual release. Masturbation must be punished severely. First, because all the wimp’s sexual energy and interest should be focused on the woman who owns him. To touch himself for private pleasure is both to cheat on her and to steal from her. His entire sexual being is her property. When he is not serving her, he is to be allowed no sexual being at all — except perhaps a constant unsatisfied craving, a painful sense of his own incompleteness without the woman.
The wimp must be made to understand that all his sexual urges are shameful and deserving of punishment. The woman’s sexual needs, on the other hand, are to be regarded as a natural right, a splendid show of wholesome energy Even while obeying the woman’s explicit commands and servicing her, the male’s actions are low and whorish.
What is the meaning of this paradox. If sex itself were shameful, the woman would be compromised as well. No, it is not the sex but the submission that is humiliating. It is the desire to be used by another, to identify so completely with someone else that their pleasure supercedes and replaces one’s own — that is what makes the submissive male a whore, a slave, a thing to be used. The wimp male ecstatically accepts sex on these terms, which match so well his obvious inadequacies.
The wimp is trained to take his owner’s strapon. At first it should be a small one, the size of his own, until he becomes adept at accepting it into his throat and can take the hardest fucking she can pound him with. Once this goal is achieved, the wimp must be made to admit that such a little cock (and that implies such a little cock as his) isn’t adequate even for him. He is made to understand that a woman can feel submissive towards a masculine man with a normal sized cock, but a little thing like this — like his —just isn’t enough.
The wimp agrees and begs her for a a larger cock. Finally she trains him with one. The object here is not to give him a gay experience, or turn him towards men, but to complete his humiliation and subjection. He will come to accept that he has no control over how, when, or how often his mouth or ass are violated, and will finally come to regard her strapon with a certain amount of apprehension. He is only allowed to cum with her strapon (or a buttplug) in him, and of course he always swallows his own sperm. Again we come to the paradigm of the nineteen-fifties submissive wife, who has been trained to believe she can only cum when submissively penetrated by her husband.The woman who accepts that sex ordinarily ends with her swallowing a mouthful of sperm before the eyes of a gloating partner.
The wimp is still occasionally used for “normal” sex, at the woman’s pleasure. But usually this ends rapidly — with him being pushed back down between her knees to use his mouth — with the observation she’d forgotten how small it was. If he is allowed to ejaculate in her, he of course cleans her after with his tongue.
The wimp realizes that he really has nothing between his legs until the woman penetrates him. Only her strapon relieves his sense of sexual inadequacy. And inadequate he is, except as a housemaid, and sexual servant. She and only she completes him. He has long since ceased to feel anything but shame about the little thing in his panties, but he exults in the the marks on his punished buttocks, as he does in his humiliating penetration. It allows him to feel what he knows — that he is owned.
I’m glad I found this picture because I’ve been asked before how do you pee in a chastity belt. This is how you pee in a chastity belt lol. It’s really not that big a deal, you might be in the bathroom for an extra minute or two but really even there’s not that much extra hygiene. If you want to get really clean, carrying a little squirt bottle will help deal with any drops that might get stuck behind the shield. What I’m trying to say though is if you’ve ever had an interest in chastity belts, don’t let the hygiene factor discourage you, it’s really not a big deal. Do however continue to let the cost discourage you lol.
This is “The Looker” chastity device, with an integrated Penis Plug. I am going to write a blog entry about this subject, but I wanted to share this picture since it demonstrates how a male’s penis can be kept plugged and chastised, while giving him full freedom to use the bathroom normally. In this particular chastity, the male’s entire penis is plugged for its full length, the plug going deep inside his shaft a good 1/2” behind the rear ring. His penis will literally fuck itself on the plug all day long, without any possible way to stop it from happening.
A plugged chastity like this usually generates a consistent predictable stream, which makes it possible for him to still use a urinal, though he may need to wear a pad in his undies in case any drips come out of the tube later. This eliminates any reason he might have for not wearing it at work since he can still function normally.
That may or may not be a plus - it depends on how you look at it.
Please be sure to read my blog entry on this subject, and read my Disclaimer elsewhere in my blog as well.
Devotional Sex “turns the traditional male / female sexual dynamic on its head. I would even dare to say that it is revolutionary in its approach to sexuality, hearkening back to certain historical periods when women and the feminine principle were truly honored and revered.”
SacredDancer, female, 51, US
The famous top painting shows the male dominated world. I like the recent photo.