A woman’s sex is the most astonishingly beautiful and life-affirming thing a man can behold. It’s different to everything he knows of himself. There’s no mystery to a cock. There’s intent and an obvious reaction you can get from it which is wonderful; but it is what it is. The vagina or pussy or cunt - whatever your chosen nomenclature for it is - is complex and intricate and responsive in ways I don’t think men can have much concept of. In my experience they’re deeply personal, too - each one is different, reacts differently, likes different things. This is to say nothing of what they have to do with fertility and birth. You learn by how your woman reacts - what works, in what order, how softly or hard, how dirty or sensuously. The process of learning what pleases a specific woman orally must be one of the greatest pleasures a man can know.
I have been told by most of the women that I’ve been with that I eat pussy like a god. Most asked how I ‘learned’ and the only answer I ever have is that as a sub - particularly a service-orientated sub - I pay attention to detail and listen to my Queen and it’s no different when I am on my knees between her legs. Most women - in bed and out - are richly communicative if you just listen or pay attention. It’s no different when you have a face full of their glorious sex. The way she breathes or moans, or moves her hips, the goosebumps on her thighs, her nipples, the way her fingertips touch you or hands guide you, the swelling or feel of her clit on your tongue, the way she gets wetter and starts to taste stronger… it’s all there. As someone whose entire life is based around the knowledge that the devil is in the details, eating pussy is never not the most rewarding, thrilling, rich experience I can have. Everything that I believe as a sub, which is that women are infinitely sensuous and complex, as well as being capable of giving and receiving pleasure on a level that men can’t hope to fathom, is reinforced by going down on a woman. It gives me purpose. It’s genuine worship because it’s always accompanied by a sense of awe for me.
As a sub, I love how I am a small part in the process, and how her intense pleasure is something I can only enjoy in an empathic nature. I don’t feel robbed knowing I will never experience orgasms the way she does - it reinforces my belief in the superiority of femininity. My last partner would orgasm 5 or 6 times when I went down on her, in increasing waves of pleasure and hardness, until with the last orgasm she would be pounding herself on my face and bucking her hips. Sometimes she could barely move afterward. I don’t especially attribute much of this to any skill of mine; much more the fact that she was completely in tune with her own body. I adore the fact that those levels - and waves - of pleasure are utterly alien to a man, and it’s something a man has to apply himself to, his only reward being his woman’s obvious pleasure. The harder he works and the more attention he pays, the happier she is. I can’t think of anything more perfect or symbolic of a good D/s lifestyle.
If I could only ever perform one sexual act for the rest of my life it would be this. The intimacy and magic of it all makes me a happy and contented boy. It doesn’t have to be a submissive act to do it; but there’s no questioning that ‘subspace’ becomes a tangible thing rather than just a concept when I do.
Moving and Perfect and Lovely."